Take a look at this New London condo! The Seasons at Lake Sunapee Country Club is a premier residential community. Lake Sunapee Country Club offers an 18 hole golf course, tennis and a pool for its members (not included in fees). A public restaurant is within walking distance. This three bedroom three bath unit overlooks the 10th green with views of Mt. Kearsarge. Monthly association fee is currently $777. Offered at $250,000.
Jane Snow, Listing Agent, 603-526-4116
Spectacular, well-appointed, vacation home or primary residence with water access to Lake Sunapee and all the comforts you need on a private cul de sac, wooded setting. Open concept, light-filled great room, first floor or second floor master suites, enormous family room with pellet stove and deck, two additional bedrooms on the second floor with another full bath. Nothing left undone - air conditioning, generator, even a 3 person sauna and exercise room! Attached two car garage PLUS separate detached 3 car heated garage/barn to store all your toys - bonus room above. About 2 miles to Lake Sunapee State Beach or Mount Sunapee for year-round fun! Ten miles to I-89. It's time to live where you play! Offered at $649,000. For more photos and details, visit http://tour.circlepix.com/home/6HNGX5/24-Shadow-Lane-Sunapee-NH-4651980
Anne Marie Appel, Listing Agent, 603-526-4116
Teamwork from the Team that works –Better Homes & Gardens Real Estate - The Milestone Team
Want a higher price and shorter time on the market for your home? You should be staging your house by adding decorative touches and updates. Here are a few “To Do’s” before going on the market:
- Have your Realtor go room to room making suggestions for improvement. Ask them to be honest and be prepared for constructive criticism.
- Pay attention to the kitchen. Put away cookbooks, utensils, excess cooking machines, etc. Put new hardware on the cabinets for a quick update. Clean off windowsills, organize cabinets.
- Update bedrooms and baths. Buy new bedcovers. Add a new shower curtain with matching towels. Clear off countertops, nightstands, and dressers.
- Boost curb appeal with fresh mulch, potted flowers, add new exterior lighting, and paint the front door.
Remember, first impressions count. If this sounds like too much for you to attempt, there are professional staging companies in the area that can do as much or as little as you’d like. Simple changes can have a big impact on the appeal of your home. Contact me if you’d like more advice on selling. 603-526-4116; www.DonnaForest.com; Donna@DonnaForest.com
Selling your house can be scary: It’s been your home, where you’ve lived and made memories. Chances are good it’s your most important asset and your biggest investment so far. Wrestling with the emotional heft of putting your home on the market is a difficult byproduct of real estate — but once a closing date has been set, the hard work is done. Right?
Actually, it’s not uncommon for sellers to feel pangs of regret when a buyer gets serious. If you’re feeling remorse for your soon-to-be-former home, don’t panic: You’re far from alone.
“When you’re selling a house, you’re not selling an object,” says Bill Primavera, a REALTOR® in Westchester County, N.Y., and “The Home Guru” blogger. “A house provides shelter and is probably the biggest thing we ever acquire, so it has a bigger impact on our life.”
The Origins of Seller's Remorse
Moving is one of life’s biggest stressors. According to Daryl Cioffi, a Rhode Island counselor and co-owner of Polaris Counseling & Consulting, it’s one of the biggest instigators for depression.
“There’s a lot of latent stuff that happens when change occurs,” Cioffi says. Are you feeling insecure? Are you wondering if you made the right decision? Those feelings are normal reactions to change — but when they get tangled up with the sale of your biggest investment, they can be downright terrifying.
Related: 9 Feelings That Are Totally Normal When You Sell Your Home
Here are some things you can do to help you manage the emotional roller coaster that comes with selling your home:
Do the Emotional Work Beforehand
Doing the emotional work before it’s time to sell is the best way to avoid regret.
“Look at the flaws of what makes it not the perfect home for you,” Cioffi says. Is it just too small for your family? Does your Great Dane need a bigger backyard? Ask yourself, “How can I close this chapter?”
That doesn’t mean you have to develop negative feelings toward your current home. You’re just trying to remind yourself of why you decided to move on.
Here's how to cope:
“Begin the detachment process by saying: ‘This works for me now, but it won’t work for me forever,’” Cioffi says.
Once you’ve processed your reasons for selling the home, give yourself space to grieve the house you’ve loved and the memories you’ve made inside its walls. It’s OK to be sad you’ll never step inside your child’s first bedroom again; conversely, that’s not a reason to stay in a home forever. You can even have fun with your grief. Why not acknowledge your feelings by throwing a goodbye party for your house?
Focus On the Future
Working through your feelings early will make the selling process smoother, but even if you spent time grieving before putting your home on the market, it’s still normal to feel some pangs of sadness during closing. While it’s easy to tell yourself you’re overreacting, getting past remorse isn’t a simple process.
How can you do it? Say goodbye to your old home and prepare yourself for what’s next. If you’re still feeling remorse after the sale has gone through, don’t overthink it: Even if you did make the wrong decision — and chances are good you didn’t — it doesn’t matter. The deed is, quite literally, done.
The next step is distraction. If you’ve already moved into your new home, throw yourself into fixing it up. Redo the shelving in the kitchen. Start a garden. Primavera recommends taking your mind off of homes completely by picking up a new hobby or exploring your new neighborhood to find fun activities, like yoga or pottery classes.
“Keep your mind focused on what’s ahead,” says Cioffi. “The fact is, it’s done. Now what? Look forward and focus on how you can make this new place something to be excited about.”
If you’re still having problems adjusting to your new life, your old home might just be a stand-in for bigger problems: Perhaps a depression worsened by moving, or it has triggered anxiety about your life in general. A long-term struggle to resolve your grief indicates you should speak with a professional counselor about your situation.
Cioffi says a good therapist will help you answer the questions, “What’s going on that you can’t let go?” and “What’s keeping you from moving forward?”
No matter how deep your seller’s remorse may be, uncovering the reasons behind it and focusing on the future are the best ways to let go of the stress of leaving a former home behind. Give yourself time to get used to the change and focus on creating new memories. After all, the happy life you had in the home you sold was the reason you loved it so much. Someday, with a new set of memories made, you’ll love your new home just as deeply.
By J
is a writer and editor with a focus on home improvement and design. Previously, she worked as a web editor for “House Beautiful,” “ELLE Decor,” and “Veranda.”
Visit Houselogic.com for more articles like this. Reprinted from Houselogic.com with permission of the National Association of REALTORS
Spectacular, well-appointed vacation home or primary residence with water access to Lake Sunapee and all the comforts you need on a private, wooded setting. Open concept, light-filled great room, first floor or second floor master suites, enormous family room with pellet stove and deck, two additional bedroom on the second floor with another full bath. Nothing left undone - air conditioning, generator, even a 3 person sauna and exercise room! Attached two car garage PLUS separate detached 3 car heated garage/barn to store all your toys - bonus room above. About two miles to Mt. Sunapee State Park beach or Mount Sunapee for year-round fun! Ten miles to I-89. It's time to live where you play! Offered at $649,000. For more photos and details, visit http://tour.circlepix.com/home/6HNGX5/24-Shadow-Lane-Sunapee-NH-4651980
Anne Marie Appel, Listing Agent, 603-526-4116
Selling and in the throes of packing and moving? Below are some helpful tips to help get through those final days so you don't end up creating more work for yourself at the last minute.
1. Don't leave personal items unless the buyers agreed to it. While you may think you are doing them a favor by leaving that sofa and bar stools, the buyers could view it differently. You don't want to be coming back to remove things right before the closing. Always check first.
2. Leftover paint, tile, and cleaning supplies. All useful for the new owners, right? Again, confirm that buyers want it left. It's not that easy to get rid of this stuff at the eleventh hour.
3. You may be closing in a week, but you still need to maintain the yard. Having buyers pull up to a house with foot high grass to do their walk-through inspection could be contentious.
Thinking of selling? Contact me and put my 23 years of real estate knowledge to work for you! 603-526-4116, www.DonnaForest.com, Donna@DonnaForest.com.
Don't miss out on this newly listed home in New London on 9.7 acres which abuts 90+ acres of conservation land on Clark Pond and sits across from Messer Pond. It's just the right size and in an ideal location with 3 bedrooms and 2 baths, screened porch, fireplace, two car garage and wood shed. There's even a home brewery (equipment sold separately)! A peaceful, tranquil setting, yet just over a mile to Main Street in New London for all the activities. Offered at $384,000. For more photos, visit http://tour.circlepix.com/home/C89EYV/277-Bog-Road-New-London-NH-4650785.
Susie Moore, Listing Agent, 603-526-4116
It's almost here - The League of NH Craftsmen Fair, August 5-13, 2017 from 10am to 5pm daily at Mount Sunapee Resort in Newbury, NH.
It's the oldest, continually running fine craft fair in America. You'll enjoy educational and fun events every day including some fantastic surprises. See new work from your favorite craftspeople and meet recently juried members. Get a head start on your holiday shopping and make sure to select a handcrafted piece for yourself.
Teamwork from the Team that works –Better Homes & Gardens Real Estate - The Milestone Team
Great curb appeal! This classic Gambrel has a lot to offer. Nice country setting but not far from schools and town amenities. Many improvements have been made such as extensive site work around the house, an updated driveway, new cabinets and counters, and a new boiler (2014). Great space, hardwood floors (first floor), front and back decks, screened porch, a large yard and a barn/garage too. All carpets have been removed and will be replaced prior to closing. Seller is related to listing agent. Offered at $277,000. For more photos and details, go to http://tour.circlepix.com/home/QKHDLU/212-Ryder-Corner-Road-Sunapee-NH-4647879
Jane Snow, Listing Agent, 603-526-4116
Buying a home is a big investment. Knowing what to steer clear of will help make this experience a positive and rewarding venture. Here are some common mistakes to avoid.
- Not knowing what you can afford. Get pre-qualified with a lender. Lending standards have tightened considerably; it’s important to know IF you can borrow money and how much.
- Failing to consider additional expenses. Taxes, insurance, utilities, and maintenance are costs on top of your mortgage.
- Being too picky. There is no such thing as a perfect home. Every house has trade-offs. Evaluate what’s important to you and let the little stuff slide.
- Not researching the neighborhood. Check school systems, traffic, potential noise situations, etc.
- Not hiring your own agent. Hire a buyer’s agent and use their expertise to represent your best interests.
The more educated you are as a buyer, the better chance you’ll have for a smooth and easy home buying experience. Give me a call if you are looking for an accredited buyer’s agent! Donna Forest, Broker Associate, 603-526-4116; Donna@DonnaForest.com; www.DonnaForest.com